![]() My single girlfriends sometimes hang out in places where they know there will be single men. Sign 9: Are you putting yourself in tempting situations? I don’t ever want to do or say anything that would cause my husband to feel uncomfortable. For me, demonstrating respect is key in a marriage. Going on and on about how fine someone else is, how good their bodies look and what you’d like to physically do to them could be hurtful to your spouse. ![]() Sign 8: Are you talking like you’re single? I wouldn’t want him to worry or wonder where I am. Out of respect, we share our whereabouts. Of course there is freedom in my marriage, but my husband and I still check in with one another. ![]() Sign 7: Are you living like you’re single?Ĭoming and going as I pleased worked for my single life, but not so much for my married life. My marriage wouldn’t work if I don’t let my husband in and trust him with my baggage. I’ve discovered that vulnerability is another area where it’s cool for singles to keep some things to themselves while dating, but not so much for married folks. Sign 6: Are you withholding information from your spouse? Having to prove themselves repeatedly or having to beg for intimacy is going to get really old really quickly. Making your spouse chase you is another one of those games singles can play, but us married folks shouldn’t. Sign 5: Are you playing hard to get with your spouse? I take great pride in my marriage, and one of the ways I demonstrate that pride is by rocking my ring every day. If you’re removing it when you’re going out in the hopes to appear single, you may be playing with fire. Sign 4: Are you choosing not to wear your wedding ring?īeing intentionally selective when it comes to wearing or not wearing your wedding ring/band is another sign, in my opinion. My marriage works best when I remember that my partnership is between me and my husband. Since I’ve been married I am more selective about the details of my marriage. I disclosed when a guy would call, who I liked and whether or not he was fun or boring. When I was single, I often shared my dating adventures with friends. Sign 3: Are you sharing too many secret details about your marriage? If you’re craving that attention, then share it with your spouse first and request more of what you need. Who doesn’t enjoy compliments or attention from someone who recognizes our assets? Hungering for attention from someone other than your spouse is sending out a message about your marriage. Sign 2: Are you seeking attention from someone other than your spouse? All those flirtatious behaviors, like batting those eyes or exchanging sexy glances should be saved for your spouse’s benefit only. ![]() I’ve watched couples struggle to recover after the initial flirting led to infidelity in their marriages. I have learned flirting is never harmless, especially when married. However, flirting with someone other than your spouse could destroy your marriage (even if you think it’s innocent). Sign 1: Are you flirting with someone other than your spouse?įor most singles, flirting comes with the territory, which is fine when dating. Here are 10 signs that you may be acting single while in a committed relationship: In order to make a relationship work, I believe there are certain behaviors married folks just shouldn’t do.
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